Entries by Nele

More-than-wanted

  We send an email, and he answers. Over the next few hesitant back-and-forths, it becomes clear that I managed to find someone in that disaster of a baby-making speed date that is actually kind, realistic, and funny. I agree to meet him again in person in December. We sit across from each other and […]

Baby-making speed dating

  It’s November 2017, and I am about to do one of the strangest things of my life: I’m going on a baby-daddy speed date. I signed up as soon as I heard about this event from Meerdangewenst (a Dutch organisation connecting queer people interested in co-parenting). But somehow that all seemed a lot more […]